Just a short, barely-coherent rant.
In light of the mess around Lena Dunham’s bullshit with O’Dell Beckham, and how it just reminds me that Black men should be leaving these white women (and gays) alone, it just makes me think back to the days I still carried an affinity for pasty dick…particularly the ones that fetishized being in a Black person.
…more so, the number of times I had my Blackness questioned, or was called things like “chocolate,” “Oreo,” “Hot Black ass”…and even a flat-out “nigga/nigger”…and worse, how, anytime I objected to them addressing me that way, they never accepted responsibility, apologized or even gave a hint that they would stop. They ALWAYS tried to turn it around on me and make me out to be the one with with problem.