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The Loneliness of Activism: Feeling Like You’re Being Tolerated Instead of Embraced

October 27, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

Can I fast-forward to the point where I’m fully surrounded by people who find my heightened interested in activism and justice to be an asset instead of a hindrance? Does that point even exist?

I long for the day that I’m immersed in a circle that finds my heightened interest in activism & justice to be an asset & not a hindrance

— WhiteGayze™ Slayer (@angryblackhoemo) October 27, 2016

I’ve touched on this before, but as someone who might jokingly be called “newly woke,” I’m finding myself in a place where I’m owning how much I value social justice and activism in a way that I hadn’t, previously. Truth of the matter is, I’ve felt strongly about social justice and liberation for myself as Black, Queer person, even before I knew what the term “social justice” was. But just after the last year or so, I’m finding myself more fully invested in advocating for justice in more substantial and far-reaching ways.

I didn’t grow up immersed in the intersection of Blackness and Queerness…nor did I grow up in social awareness and activism. They’re all things that I had to go out and find and/or stumble upon on my own. And moving to Chicago played a big factor in that, as did finding my way back to spaces in social media like Twitter. I feel like I’ve grown a great deal in a very short time (I would NOT have been cool with calling myself “Angry” just a year ago…even in jest). It’s given me a much greater sense of clarity in how I view the world, but it’s also come at a price. [Read more…]

Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things, Life and Shit Tagged With: Activism, Angry Black Man, Life

DISCLAIMER: Your Cishet Feelings Are Not Safe Here (Part 2)

August 19, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

So, I addressed my lack of fucks to give for fragile white feelings in Part 1, but I’m Angry Black HoeMo…I wasn’t gonna only cover one side of the problematic fence. I have reads for everyone. This one is going to be a bit less focused than the last one, but it’s all things that need to be said and heard (and to clarify what you’re getting when you’re on this blog), all the same.

While we’re addressing fragile, bigoted ass people, let me go on and take a swipe at you asswipes who say crap like this:

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Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things, All the Queer Things Tagged With: Angry Black Man, Bigotry, Black, Cis, Cisgender, Cishet, Gay, Homophobia, Queer, Transphobia

Dear Black Homophobes

August 13, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

Homophobe: “You can’t hide being Black but you can hide being gay”

Me:

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Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things Tagged With: Angry Black Man, Black, Gay, Homophobia, LGBTQ, Queer

*Angry* Black HoeMo? I absolutely am

February 24, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

This is originally from an entry on my Medium blog

Similarly to most any other socially aware Black person with an opinion on virtually anything of consequence, I’ve gone through my adult life being consistently and adamantly labeled by non-Black people as “Militant,” “Too Opinionated,” or — everyone’s favorite detracting tool — “Angry.” For the longest, I’d resented this term, because I never felt like I was coming from a place of anger, but simply from speaking my truth about issues I’d personally encountered and my discontent with many of them. I mean, maybe it’s just me, but I think I’m entitled to rant a bit over being called things like “Oreo” or “The Whitest Black Guy I Know” by more than one white gay man — or being chastised for being a bottom as opposed to the aggressive, Mandingo tops they like to stereotype us as being.

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Filed Under: All the Black Things, All the Magical Black Queer Things Tagged With: Angry, Angry Black Man, Black, Racism

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