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It’s Time To Retire the “No Blacks, No Asians” Topic

November 25, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

Recently, an article was published via Guardian, examining the whole “No Blacks, No Asians” issue among gay men. It was the latest in a semi-wave of articles being written over the last couple of years, largely by white, gay men, examining the issue. The article, for the most part, wasn’t terrible (not at all groundbreaking, to anyone who’s been paying attention, though). It was a 101 intro to racism in the gay community…but for me, that’s part of the issue…but of course, I’ve been wanting us all to get out of the kiddie pool of social justice for a while. Additionally, looking on Twitter, the author’s responses to the fair and legit criticisms from POC have been telling, if not typical. There’s this expectation from white people that, just the most basic acts of “allyship” puts one above reproach. I’ve discussed my issues with “allyship” in pieces throughout this site, so no need to dive into it, here, but this just all feels very familiar…and old. [Read more…]

Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things, All the Queer Things, All-Lies Tagged With: All-Lies, Black LGBTQ, LGBTQ, Racism, White Supremacy, WhiteGayze™

Being LGBTQ Does Not Cure white People of Their Bullshit

October 18, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

WhiteGayze™ continuously prove that being LGBTQ, in and of itself, isn’t some shortcut to social awareness.

If you’ve followed my work for any length of time (particularly, my activity on Twitter), you’ll know my issues with the WhiteGayze™ have been fairly well-documented. But for the benefit of anyone who might be new to Angry Black HoeMo, I’ll give the term WhiteGayze™ a proper definition (subject to change whenever the hell I feel like doing so):

WhiteGayze™ (noun): A catch-all term that is used to highlight people who are white and LGBTQ-identified (most often gay, cisgender men, but not always), who embody and/or exhibit the many, many negative and harmful characteristics that are informed by white supremacy (in many cases, whiteness and maleness), in ways that intersect with the LGBTQ community…and are particularly harmful to LGBTQ People of Color (POC).

This includes, but is not limited to: general discriminatory attitudes towards POC (i.e. “No Blacks, No Asians”), rationalizing—and/or perpetuating—racially-insensitive behavior, appropriating slang, mannerisms and trends created by POC (and not understanding why that’s a problem), speaking for the entire LGBTQ community in ways that erase POC, fetishizing and objectifying POC in ways that give no consideration to this country’s racial history (or even present), earnestly uttering the phrase “Inner Black Woman,” etc. [Read more…]

Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things, All the Queer Things Tagged With: Black, Erasure, Racism, White Privilege, White Supremacy, WhiteGayze™

DISCLAIMER: Your Cishet Feelings Are Not Safe Here (Part 2)

August 19, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

So, I addressed my lack of fucks to give for fragile white feelings in Part 1, but I’m Angry Black HoeMo…I wasn’t gonna only cover one side of the problematic fence. I have reads for everyone. This one is going to be a bit less focused than the last one, but it’s all things that need to be said and heard (and to clarify what you’re getting when you’re on this blog), all the same.

While we’re addressing fragile, bigoted ass people, let me go on and take a swipe at you asswipes who say crap like this:

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Filed Under: All the Magical Black Queer Things, All the Queer Things Tagged With: Angry Black Man, Bigotry, Black, Cis, Cisgender, Cishet, Gay, Homophobia, Queer, Transphobia

DISCLAIMER: Your white Feelings Are Not Safe Here (Part 1)

August 18, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

So, today, I got my first piece of “fan mail,” which I thought would be a great opportunity to set a few things straight.

The “fan mail” is as follows:

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Filed Under: All the Black Things, All the Magical Black Queer Things, All the Queer Things, All-Lies Tagged With: All-Lies, Allies, Disclaimer, Race, Racism, White Privilege, wypipo

Why I Can’t Easily Trust White People

August 10, 2016 by Angry Black HoeMo

This is originally from an entry on my Medium blog

A personal rant. Hear me out…I promise it’s not petty

Now, purely on a systemic level, there are many reasons to inherently be less than trusting of white people (and anyone who’s familiar with my writings so far is probably well-aware of that already). But that’s not what this piece is about. This is more on an individual, interpersonal level…and perhaps how that level relates to the systemic level.

So, I once had this friend who I felt very close with — we chartered and helped build a leather club together, traveled together, regularly had intimate conversations…he was even the first person I reached out to and confided in when I was diagnosed with HIV. Frankly, he could be a bit of an ass and would spread drama and bullshit wherever he went, but I always stuck up for him because I knew him through the bullshit, and felt like he would do the same for me. By just about any measure that matters, I considered him family, and I honestly thought the world of him.

…but that all changed as my social views continued to evolve. [Read more…]

Filed Under: All the Queer Things, Life and Shit Tagged With: Black, Democrats, Friendship, Life, Racism, White Privilege, White Supremacy

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